6 Signs Your Dog Feels Safe, Secure and Happy With YouBeth
Sometimes, you might wish you could come back in another life as a dog—especially when your pup seems to have not a care in the world. You know the look: a loose, wiggly body, soft eyes, and a deep sigh as they settle into their favorite spot on the couch. But not every pup is living the carefree life. In fact, loud noises, changes in routine, moving to a new home, and other stressors can leave some dogs feeling uneasy, even when they have loving, attentive pet parent. So, how can you tell if your feels, safe, secure and happy?
Seeing how your furry companion is part of your family you want to make sure they feel comfortable and are in a good mood. The good news is, their body language can offer you important clues. Though, decoding those signs can be tricky since some dog behaviors can be really subtle and easy to miss out on.
That’s why it’s important to pay attention to your furry family member to see what they are communicating to you. There are some common signs your dog is happy and relaxed, though, and recognizing them can help you better understand how your pup is feeling. That way, if you notice they are feeling down, you can help lift their spirits. “Like humans, dogs that aren’t content likely have higher cortisol levels, which can harm their health and well-being in the long run,” explains Annie-Mae Levy, CFBA, a professional dog trainer at Woofz, a puppy and dog training app by nove8.
To help you read your pet better, here are six signs trainers say may indicate your dog is all wags, no worries.
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6 Signs Your Dog Feels Safe, Secure and Happy
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How to tell if your dog is content and at ease can vary, but there are several common ways your furry companion can communicate their mood to you. From soft eyes to a loose, wagging tail, your dog’s body language can offer clues about how they’re feeling. But not every wag means happiness, and some signs of a relaxed dog are surprisingly easy to miss. Levy shares how you can tell the difference and what signs show your pup is feeling comfortable, secure, and enjoying life.
1. They don’t destroy the house when you’re gone
Wondering how to tell if your dog feels comfortable being home alone? One encouraging sign is that they can settle down without becoming distressed or without destroying anything in your home. Levy says that when a dog’s needs are being met and they can relax in their environment, they may be less likely to show signs of separation-related distress
“If your dog can chill out and you see no signs that they barked or destroyed anything while you were away, that tells us they can stay calm and relaxed on their own,” Levy explains.
2. Their eyes look soft and relaxed
If you’re not sure what happy dog body language looks like, you’re not alone. Many pet parents overlook these signs that their pet gives them because they don’t know what to look for. Afterall, some are more noticeable than others.
“Body language is our dogs’ only way of communicating with us how they are feeling, and so it’s important that we learn these subtle cues that let us know whether our pups are feeling stressed out or chill,” Levy explains.
She adds that a relaxed expression, soft gaze, and loose facial muscles can be reassuring signs that your pup feels comfortable. In fact, it’s just another way your dog smiles on the inside. By contrast, a dog showing the whites of their eyes alongside a tense body may be uncomfortable or stressed, so it’s important to read their whole body rather than focus on one cue.
3. They sleep deeply when you’re home
One of the signs your dog feels safe at may be their ability to settle into a comfortable nap. Your dog doesn’t have to snore for this behavior to mean they don’t have a care in the world (it’s just a cute add-on). After all, dogs need plenty of rest, and a relaxed sleeping posture can suggest they’re comfortable in their surroundings. Levy notes that animals are vulnerable while sleeping, making a safe-feeling environment important.
“Spending lots of time asleep indicates that your dog is feeling safe and comfortable in their environment,” Levy says.
That said, Levy notes that sudden changes in sleep patterns are worth flagging with a vet.
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4. They want to play with you
There are a few ways you an tell your dog has no worries. Just watch what happens when your pup brings over a favorite toy, nudges you to play, or drops into a playful bow. Levy reports that dogs are among the few animals that spontaneously play as adults, so this behavior is their way of telling you they have no worries or fears.
“Play in adult dogs is not necessary for survival and is purely something they do for fun, and stressed animals are existing in fight-or-flight mode—not looking to have fun,” Levy says. “If your dog initiates play with you most days, that is a great sign they are relaxed in your company and just want to have fun.”
5. Their tail wags slowly and loosely
Does a wagging tail always mean a dog is happy? Not necessarily. According to Levy, tail wagging is one part of canine body language, and its meaning depends on the dog’s posture, the movement of their tail, and what’s happening around them. As a result, a slow and loose wags are the tell-tail sign your dog is in a calm, happy state however, fast, short wags with a high, stiff tail might even indicate that your dog is preparing to react aggressively.
6. A relaxed, open mouth
How do dogs show they are relaxed? One way to tell is by paying attention to their mouth. A dog with a loose jaw and a relaxed, slightly open mouth may be comfortable in that moment and feels safe around you. Some researchers describe this appearance as a relaxed open mouth (ROM), but context matters because if your dog is panting, that can also happen because of heat, exercise, excitement, pain, or stress.
Levy explains it’s important to consider their breathing rate and other facial cues rather than relying on a pup’s open mouth alone. “The key thing to look for is how heavily they are breathing and whether you can see wrinkles at the corners of their mouths,” Levy says. “True ROM usually has no side-of-mouth wrinkles and a low breathing rate, but this can be harder to see in some breeds, and others are just wrinkly all the time, no matter how they feel!”
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Annie-Mae Levy, CFBA, a professional dog trainer at Woofz, a puppy and dog training app by nove8
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